Pleez Help?

My DW page feeds overs to my LJ page. I went to check LJ and all formatting and styles are gone. Went through the settings, updated, yadda. The preview shows me what I chose. I went back to my main page, and it's still the bullshit with half the page being "widgets" that I neither want nor need.

Anyone know how to fix this? Or does it only show like this to me because it's my journal and I'm logged in?

I'm also really hating the friends page that is also half widgets and the actual content crammed into half a screen.

Any and all assistance would be greatly appreciated.